fair nga ba?

they say all is fair in love and war. but what if your rival has an advantage over you? like in the case of love, even if you have more love to give than your rival, but the object of both of your affections will, predictably, choose your rival because of what she has that you don't. in my case, my rival has the V to be proud of just by being a woman. anong panlaban ko dun?