forgive and forget

they say to forgive is to forget. aba syempre. if someone has erred against you, you have to forgive and forget.

if your girlfriend slaps you or pinches you with an inexplicable annoying pain, forgive her. then forget her. hehehe.

if your gang of friends play a prank on you that you never like, forgive them. then you can forget them.

if your boyfriends forgets your anniversary or any occasion that's special for you, forgive him. then forget him.

that's how that timeless maxim is actually meant to mean. hehehe.

oh, forget my senseless chatter. i just thought about it earlier as something to amuse myself with so that all the worries and stress at the moment evaporate.

but, seriously, the best way to forget how you've been wronged is to learn to forgive. and that doesn't apply to the people you know but to yourself as well. if you think you've wronged yourself, stop dwelling on the anxiety by forgiving yourself and by giving yourself another take on a better and bitterless life. :)